Happy 30th Birthday

12 Feb 2018,

Faten Syamimie,

To start off with, I am so proud of you. Life hasn't been too easy on you lately, and I am truly sorry about that. But despite it all, you have managed to keep your head up and continue fighting throughout. Be proud of everything you have gone through and mostly what you've become.

Stop being so hard on yourself. Everything will make sense to you one day. All the pain, hurt and frustation will become worth it. Remember, everything happens  for a particular reason. You are in exact place you are meant to be right now. So breath, be patient and trust the course of your life. Let go of all the expectations you have created in your head. Accept reality as it comes. Accepts life for what it is.

Dont take everything so personally and try not to let others get you down. Most of the time, things have nothing to do with you, and everything to do with the others person. When people hurt you, try and understand their side of the story. Forgive them. Learn from their wrongdoings, and then let it remain in the past. Not everything is always how it appears.

You are perfect in every way, especially with your flaws. Accept the things that make you different, while embracing everything that makes you unique. Even though you think you are broken, there is so much beauty in your pain. Also you're really not as broken as you think you are. You are stronger than anything that has tried to tear you down. You are survivor, not a victim. So with that, try not to be so hard on yourself, we both know you're doing the best you can.

Create a meaningful life for yourself that you can be proud of. Promise me, you will make the most of it all. Never let anyone get in the way of your goals in life. More importantly, never give up on your passions and your dreams. Do not waste your time on people who do not believe in you. You dont need anyone like that in your life. Only surround yourself with people who encourage and inspire you.

You deserve the world and even a little more. You are smart. You are beautiful. Your are enough. You are everything and you are all. Try not to rely too much on others for your happiness.

At the end of the day, all you are guaranteed is yourself. Never forget this. Stop worrying so much about stupid boys. There is so much more to you than being someone else's girlfriend or wife. Frankly, there is so much to life than a guy. Be patient and stay positive while waiting for love. Just because you have not found it yet, does not mean you dont deserve to be loved. You must learn to completely love yourself before you even try to love another.

help others. Be a good friend and make sure to be kind of your family. Be selfless, not selfish. Love like you never seen pain before. And if you do not find the strenght to do so, just make sure you find enough love for yourself.

You are strong, my dear. You have been through a lot and come out on the winning end. The world has tried to break you, but you never let it. Thank your past for it has made you into a better person today. Not everyone you have meet is meant to stay around forever. people will leave you. On the contrary, you will also leave others. People will dissapoint you and all you can do is learn to appreciate them for what they have taught you. Thank the people who have stayed. Fill the spaces of the ones who have gone. More importantly, gracefully let go of the things and people that are not meant for you. Accept things the way they are.

Thank you for never giving up and being so tough. You inspire others and you lift them up. Stay strong. Stand up tall. Be more beautiful than ever. Make them wonder how you do it.

You know you deserve the world and NOW GO GET IT. 

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